You can find a variety of toys that will help you achieve orgasm in sex shops or online. Love toys such as the blow job helper can improve intimacy and increase your chances of reaching climax during intercourse or on your own.
This luxe vibe is the favorite for pinpointed clit or internal pleasure. It also has a smart-silence function for discreet play.
Love Eggs
Love eggs are small vibrating sex toys designed for vaginal or anal stimulation. They are made from silicone or other body-safe materials. They come in a variety speeds and patterns to suit you and your partner. They’re also whisper quiet, so they can be used during intimate moments without disturbing your partner.
While you can use love eggs on your own, they’re most fun when shared. You can place one in your underwear, wiggle it against your G-spot to get internal pleasure, or put it in the mouth of your partner during oral sex to experience extra sensational play. Some egg vibrators are remote-controlled so that you or your partner can control the vibration from afar, which is perfect for long distance sex.
Some eggs are waterproof and can be used in the bath or shower. You can also find eggs with a posable, flexible tail that is perfect for kegel exercises. And since they’re so discreet, you can easily take them with you to public places for secret sensuous adventures.
If you’re hesitant to slip your love eggs inside, warm up your vulva first by applying it externally. You can begin by rubbing the love egg on your inner thighs, and then work your way to your clitoral area and G-spot.
A powerful bullet vibrator can be used to add excitement to your sexy toys. These vibrators cover a larger area than the average egg-vibe and are therefore better for anal stimuli. You can also use them to target your clitoral hood and G spot with simultaneous pleasure, which is sure to please.
Sex Furniture
Sex furniture can be a great way for you to increase your sexual pleasure, whether you’re looking for a simple toy or want to expand your repertoire of kinks and bondages. Sex furniture might sound like something you’d find in a fetish shop, but it’s actually becoming more mainstream. Liberator, for instance, makes chic chaise lounges with washable covers that help you clean up your romps. These sleek pieces are a fun and flirty addition to your living room or boudoir, and can easily blend in with a groovy contemporary aesthetic.
Sex furniture includes everything from small items that can be hidden, like sex cushions, to large pieces, like benches and chairs. There are also sex toy mounts that allow you to use your favorite vibrator or fleshlight hands-free and sex ramps that elevate the pelvis for more realistic masturbation and deeper penetration to stimulate the g-spot and a-spot. Benches that combine full-body support and plenty of D-rings for bondage play are a must-have in any BDSM dungeon.
Many sex items, like the Liberator Flip Ramp, or Jaz Motion pillow are simple to use and discrete enough to tuck into a corner of your bedroom. Other products such as the Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System or the Door Jam Sex Sling allow you to turn your furniture into sex toys by adding adjustable straps.
Sex furniture can be used alone or with a partner, depending on your needs and preferences. It’s a great option for couples who want to try new positions or elevate existing positions for more intense stimulation and deeper penetration. Sex furniture is also a great solution for couples who have pain or discomfort when in certain positions. This includes those with back and hip problems. Many people report that sex furniture allows them to have more intense orgasms, and longer intercourses. This makes it a valuable tool in their sexual intimacy toolbox.
Clitoral Toys
There are many ways to stimulate your clitoris. You can use a clitoral vibration alone or with your partner to create mind-blowing sensations. It’s an easy toy to get used to as you explore different ways to play.
There are clitoral wands that look and feel like a microphone, with a rounded shape to stimulate the entire vulva. You can find air-sucking pulsers, such as the Satisfyer pro 2 Generation 3. This device boasts a revolutionary technology that feels like oral sex.
Other clitoral toys are rabbit vibrators, bullet-style vibrations with external “ears,” which tuck behind your labia to provide dual stimulation of the clitoris as well as G-spot. The OCTMOM Rose sex tool, for instance, is slim enough that it can fit in your mouth. It features a clitoral stimulation device and a handle acting as a vibrating dildo.
You can also get a hands-free clitoral stimulater like the Womanizer Premium 2. It holds tightly to your labia, and produces deep orgasms when you use it for intercourse, solo play, or foreplay. This clitoral device is also great for masturbation. However, be careful as it can burn you if you use too much force or pressure.
Kate Moyle, a sexologist who teaches sexual health, recommends that you start with the lowest setting on any clitoral toys and gradually work your way up to find your sweet spot. Moyle notes that a little bit of lube is always helpful, whether from natural secretions or toy-safe sex lubricant, as it heightens sensation and helps prevent friction against the clitoral head.
Couples Toys
While sex toy have become more mainstream in recent years, they still carry a stigma in some social circles. Couples may be afraid that toys will lead to sexual dysfunction or a lack in intimacy in their relationship, but toys can actually enhance a healthy romantic life for couples. They can stimulate the erogenous zone and intensify both partners’ pleasure during partnered playing.
In fact, couples who have a long-lasting love and connection often report a happy sexual experience. Couples that engage in erotic activity together, like using toys such as clitoral stimulation or dildos report increased intimacy and pleasure when having non-sexual relations.
If you want to experiment with sex tools in the bedroom, have an open and honest conversation with your partner. Make sure both of you feel comfortable with the toys you choose, and always use lube for easier play. Make sure you clean your sex toy properly before and after each use.
The Dame’s Eva Vibrator is designed to be used hands-free during partnered sex. It has a range of vibration patterns, intensities and patterns that you can choose from. It’s made of body-safe materials and is latex, silicone and phthalate-free.
Another great option for couples is the Satisfyer Partner Multifun 3, which is a sex toy with an insertable shaft. It has 30 different functions and 100 vibration combinations to explore, and it’s USB-rechargeable and easy to clean.
You can also try a sex toy with a remote control like the OhMiBod Bliss Couple’s Vibe, which allows one person to operate it while the other person relaxes. This gives the opportunity to learn each other’s arousal responses and build trust through paired play.
The JimmyJane Ballerina is another option that can be enjoyed by both parties. It’s super low-profile and fits in the palm of your hand, and it can be used to stroke or tease your partner. You can even use this to massage your nipples and run it across your entire vulva.
